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7/3/01
Feminism
Increases Global Warming
I
have received so many emails about the article below by Deborah Orr that I have
decided to post it in full, and comment about it here on the website, rather
than respond to all the different questions I have received regarding it.
But first,
let me point out that this method is inherently rather unfair on Ms Orr. After
all, anyone can pick off sentences from an article and make a meal out of them -
especially a short article designed for a wide variety of readers.
I have tried
to be as fair as I can, but, nevertheless, the cards are all stacked in my
favour.
And I'm in a
bad mood.
The truth about this male
crisis
Deborah Orr
The
Independent
"Masculinity in
crisis" is rather an hysterical call-to-arms, and the banner under which
London's Royal Festival Hall is running a series of public discussions involving
all manner of men, and one or two women as well. It's a term that gets people
going, especially as the very idea of masculinity and crisis living in the same
universe are contradictions in terms to any man wedded to the thought that his
masculinity may define him.
The robustly feminist
view as espoused by, among others Germaine Greer, is that masculinity jolly well
ought to be in crisis, because it's such a rancid old construct anyway. The more
inclusive feminist view, as explored by Susan Faludi in a recent book, is that
this is a crisis which women ought to be concerning themselves with, too, and
not just because it is impacting on women and children.
The masculine, as
distinct from the male view, is that if there is a crisis, it's been caused by
women. (If
there is a 'crisis', it has been
caused by lying feminists and their repulsive, but heavily influential,
misandric ideology.)
They have taken men's jobs, insisted they can look after themselves and their
children as well, (Whereas,
in
fact, they clearly can't! - as is evidenced by the problems that their children
are having, together with the problems that those same children are inflicting
upon the nation; crime etc.) and
have used up the nation's health care resources (EIGHT
TIMES as much money is spent on specific women's health issues than is spent on
men's. This is a fact, like it or not.)
Then
they have the cheek to complain when they're 10 months pregnant and not being
offered a gentlemen's seat on the train.
All this is, of course,
rot. Masculine work such as ship-building or steel-working has been nicked not
by women but by other men. We call it globalisation, and it is not a consequence
of feminism. (Nowhere have I seen men arguing that their shipbuilding
or steel-working jobs have been lost on
account of feminism. NOWHERE! This is just misandric nonsense.)
Women, far from breaking
ground in looking after themselves and their children, have retreated, refusing
to take full responsibility for looking after other perfectly able adults (i.e.
the fathers) as well
as themselves and the kids. (This
is repeating a feminist deceit. The idea that women alone did the raising and
the 'looking after' is nonsense. For example, industrialisation forced men out
of the homes to spend their days in WORK. And so they provided money. Is this not an
important part of 'looking after' one's children - and one's wife? And is
Deborah Orr really suggesting that women should not look after their partners?)
Women patently want more help from men in raising families, not less, which is
why it is so very churlish of some men to misunderstand so completely. (Many
women specifically do NOT want this. Others want it only when it suits them.
And, of course, women can always change their minds. They can still keep the house and the kids while getting rid of
'him', should they so desire.)
And as for women hogging
all the healthcare.... Well, if masculinity is all about dying of prostate
cancer because masculinity is all about never being wishy-washy enough to need
to visit the doctor, then it is hardly surprising that a crisis has ensued.
(This is typical feminist disparaging of the male gender. There are numerous reasons
why men do not receive, or seek, more health care - and feminist histrionics and
censorship can be blamed a great deal for this. For example, two months ago an
article concerning men's health was pulled from a national newspaper because it
might have been found offensive to some women! Further, Ms
Orr conveniently forgets to mention the fact that millions upon millions of
pounds has been spent by government to 'educate' women about their health and to
take it seriously, and to
encourage them to see their doctors regularly (e.g. Well Women Clinics). She
also forgets that doctors' surgeries are packed full of leaflets concerning
women's health while often having none AT ALL pertaining to the health of
men. She also forgets that there has been a continual deluge of TV
programmes about women's health over the past two decades, but hardly any on
men's. And she forgets that the ubiquitous feminist propaganda and the
thoroughly selfish concerns of the government's Women's Unit have drowned out
any health messages and funding targeted at men. And
she conveniently forgets to mention that EIGHT times as much money is spent on
women's health issues in the UK than is spent on men's. No mention! Finally, one
only has to take a look at the current Health
Pages of the GOVERNMENT-funded BBC to see how much more help
is being offered to women than to men.)
As for offering seats on
the train, some men are confident or thoughtful enough to do that thing, but
many are simply afraid that they'll get short shrift from some scary lady. Some
among those take pleasure in seeing the scary lady suffer. They are the ones who
needed the disguise we called masculinity most of all, and the ones who feel the
most naked and vulnerable without it. (Deborah
Orr is now playing at being a 'psychologist' who can interpret why it is that
men do or do not offer seats - and, again, her remarks are clearly disparaging
with regard to the male gender.)
For masculinity was never
much to do with being a man, any more than femininity was much to do with being
a woman. (Really? And what
evidence is there for this bold statement?)
Each has only ever been a complementary construct for the other. With the erosion
of (I'd prefer to
say, 'successful feminist denigration of')
traditional ideas of femininity the old ideas of
masculinity have also been exposed. Traditional ideas of masculinity are as
outdated as the idea that the wife should vote, not just gratefully, but also as
her husband tells her. (Women
have never been that interested in politics - and this is STILL the case,
statistically speaking.)
A masculine man was once head of his household, even
though he didn't know how many sugars he took in his own tea. Which is, of
course, absurd. (Not
so absurd if he spent 16 hours a day down a mine for seven days a week.)
It's absurd really as
well, to talk about a "crisis" in masculinity. (ABSOLUTELY!)
Masculinity isn't what it used to be, that's for sure, and as an identity to
hide behind it no longer works. Whether or not this amounts to a crisis depends
on how willing people are to adapt. The problem, as I see it, is that men and
women are both adapting like mad, but to new models that for both of them are
extremely stressful.
Post-industrialisation,
the middle class ideal was that a household should contain a woman working
within it and a man working without it. This system, if it ever had a
"golden" period, didn't last very long at all, (it
lasted for quite a few centuries before!)
because it was so
utterly unsustainable from the female point of view (as
soon as jobs became easy, and the contraceptive pill arrived).
Women were over-feminised,
and rebelled against their stereotypes. (But
it's amazing how they resort to those very same 'feminine' stereotypes when in
today's courtrooms or when playing at being 'victims'!)
Men did not, on the whole, join them to
question their masculinity. Which is how masculinity reached its
"crisis". (Personally,
I have not come across one man who appears to be having a 'crisis of masculinity'. Indeed, this
whole 'crisis of masculinity' seems more of a media fabrication endorsed by the likes of
an extremely wealthy happily married politically-correct media
psychiatrist Anthony Clare - and who, in my view, talks rubbish for most of the time.)
Part of the trouble is
that the system offers little flexibility. Women, unable to beat it, have little
choice but to join it. The sensible new division of labour would have been to
maintain the 40 or so hours of outside work in a week, but divided between the
two adults. What has happened instead is that it has become the norm for both
middle-class women and men to spend a great deal of time at work.
The financial gains that
are supposedly driving this double income model, are largely spent on childcare,
stuff to amuse the kids, cleaners, gardeners, having two cars (Yes,
more traffic congestion, more pollution - i.e. feminism adds to global warming!
You think I'm kidding. I'M NOT!)
instead of the
time to walk or cycle to school with the children, and so on. Not to mention the
mortgage, and the fact that the more money people have, the more items will
cost.
The idea of workers'
solidarity is not fashionable at the moment. But the fact remains that if the
will was there for everyone to insist
on working fewer
hours
(what, by law? as in communist countries?) and spending more
time with our families, then civilisation would survive and thrive under the
change. But at the moment, the pressure for part-time work comes mainly from
women, setting up further oppositions and competitions within the jobs market.
Men in numbers still
cling to the idea that long working hours are bound up with their masculinity,
even though this idea is again absurd. (Given
that women still select men very much on the basis of their wealth and their power, and
given that men seem quite happy to aim to achieve both of these things by
working long hours in a COMPETITIVE world - especially since it also attracts
the women - I am not
sure where this supposed 'absurdity' lies - and neither do men see these
endeavours as being particularly reflective of masculine traits! Working hard is
certainly not a mark of 'masculinity' - and I've never heard a man say that it
is. Again, it is only the media psychobabblers such as Anthony Clare and
wishy-washy pop-psychologists and journalists who make such ridiculous and false
claims about men. Men may well work harder at their jobs, but do they really
work harder overall than women? You certainly won't find such a claim on this
website!)
Either gender can work all the hours God sends. (Exactly!)
It's just that work in the home and family pays in kind not in money. Some of
each is better for everyone.
And if this middle-class
crisis – plenty of money but not enough time – seems destructive, the impact
on lower earners is much worse. In Scotland,
the number of female workers has now overtaken the number of male workers, while
at the same time Scotland also boasts a high number of single-parent households
headed by women, and overall lower pay.
There is evidence here
that some men are opting out altogether – opting out of work and opting out of
family, leaving a female-dominated workforce desperate to take jobs for which
they are paid little. This speaks less of "masculinity in crisis" than
of "masculinity in retreat". (Yes,
men are retreating from the family. What a surprise, given that they have very
little future in the family!
But they are also being
kicked out of the family - though, of course, this isn't mentioned by Deborah
Orr.
Not only are men likely to be divorced at the whim
of their women - and 50% of married men are divorced - they are also likely to lose their
houses and their children and face the prospects of financially funding the
whole enterprise with little thanks and, unless they're rich, an utter
devaluation of their entire futures.
When it comes to the family, men are
very much fourth-class citizens.
Of course they're
retreating!)
The inference could be
drawn that instead of adapting, some men are withdrawing, blaming women for
their troubles, and punishing women and children accordingly. Which is tragic,
not just for those men, but for all of us. (Yes
it is tragic. But what is conveniently forgotten by Deborah Orr is that feminism has been OPENLY aiming at achieving this 'tragic' end - men
withdrawing - for three decades!)
For this is the way in
which the vicious circle will continue. There had been plenty of venom spread
around between the genders over the years in which feminism has fought its
corner. (Pardon?
Perhaps Ms Orr would like to tell us where exactly men have been allowed to
fight their own corner in all of these years. In what papers? On what TV or radio
programmes? Where? For thirty years the media has pumped out almost nothing but
man-hating feminist propaganda and lies. Where have men been allowed the same space?
Where, for example, are the government-funded 'Men's Studies' courses?)
I for one have had enough of it. (Enough
of it!? Goodness me. It's only just started. And you haven't seen anything yet!)
There are plenty of men
who are more than willing to adapt to life in which they have the kind of
relationship with their own children that they could not have imagined having
with their own fathers. Likewise, there are plenty of women keen to step back
from the all-encompassing model of motherhood and give fathers time to parent
their children properly. (How
jolly decent of them! Until they unilaterally decide otherwise, that is.)
In the past, from all
sorts of branches of psychology, we have heard theories about the pernicious
effects of smother love, or dominant mothers, or withholding mothers and so on.
The obvious inference to be made from all these observations is that too much of
the parental responsibility is falling to the mother, and not enough to the
father. Now men have a real chance to redefine their up-until-now rather narrow
role in life, and seize the opportunity to enjoy a more rounded maleness than
masculinity ever could have offered. It would be terrible if men found there
just wasn't the time to really take their chance. (And
they won't find the time while the law actually disempowers and threatens them with regard to
their family roles, while the law gives precedence always to the women, and
while the histrionics of the feminists and the abuse industries continue to
demonise the roles of men in relation to their very own children.) What
I find particularly aggravating about this article from Deborah Orr (and from
nearly all other media folk who discuss these issues) is the complete failure to
recognise that there has been the most MONUMENTAL, THIRTY YEAR,
FEMINIST-INSPIRED onslaught against men when it comes to the family - and,
indeed, with regard to their relationships with ANY children. It's
as if feminism never existed! Or that it never had any effects! 1.
There has been unrestrained hysteria over men and child abuse, with
organisations such as the NSPCC fostering a complete terror of having men
anywhere near children. For decades this organisation has fueled hatred of the
male gender with its hysterical and scandalous behaviour. Not only has it
stirred up the population, FOR YEARS, with ridiculous notions concerning
'satanic abuse' and 'recovered memories', it has bombarded the entire nation
with lurid, 'abuse' advertisements to further its own ends (MOSTLY income for
its cronies) at the expense of fathers and fatherhood. And, for all this time,
this organisation has completely failed to notice that fathers are among the
least likely to abuse their children! 2.
Three schoolteachers every week were being suspended on the basis of FALSE
allegations of abuse and were ruthlessly and vindictively pursued by foolish,
status-seeking social workers who ALWAYS 'believed' the children regardless even
of any overwhelming contrary evidence that was laid before them. Some of
these teachers committed suicide. 95% of the allegations were false. 3.
Social workers still investigate almost 1,000 INNOCENT families EVERY WEEK on
the basis of information from organisations such as Childline. Not only are
these investigations intrusive and alarming for those concerned, it has made
many men throw in the towel completely when it comes to dealing with children.
And the social workers' ridiculous beliefs in secret rituals of satanic abuse
and 'recovered memories' has made men realise that, when it comes to children,
they can be accused of anything, at any time, even forty years later - and
without a shred of reality-based evidence standing against them! 4.
A major and ubiquitous feminist-inspired piece of misandric propaganda has been
that women do NOT need men in the family. "A
woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle." And
millions of women have been indoctrinated into believing this and have for years
now taunted their men with the very notion of it. How much more hateful and
gender- divisive can these revolting feminist women get? Further,
the lies from the feminist propaganda machine, together with its intimidation of
those who dared to speak against it, even managed to cover up the appalling
problems that many children faced when raised in fatherless families. Goodness
me. Think of the enormous amount of money being spent on all those 'experts' on
children - the children's charities, the teachers in the schools, the social
services, the police, the sociology and social science departments, the
therapists, the psychologists, the psychoanalysts, the priests, the agony aunts,
the journalists. There are
millions of these people! And
no-one f**king noticed for thirty years the massive negative consequences of
fatherless not only on the children but on the whole of society! Bullsh*t. They
noticed all right. But they
didn't dare speak. They didn't dare do the research. And the media didn't dare
publicise anybody who did. That's
feminism and political correctness for you. They
are ideologies based on little more than man-hatred and lies. And
huge social and psychological structures and institutions have now
been built on the falsities that these ideologies have engendered. But their
pillars and their foundations are rotten through and through. They
are going to crumble. Further,
the record clearly shows that histrionic, vindictive, lying feminist groups,
women's groups and political correctoids not only falsified and/or
distorted the evidence that was being placed before them, it also shows how they
intimidated those who dared to speak out. Finally,
given that women are still continually being indoctrinated with the view that
marriage oppresses them or disadvantages them in some way, that divorce is
actually a 'route to liberation', and that the law now provides women with a
one-sided contract, what is this "real chance" that, according to
Deborah Orr, men now supposedly have with regard to becoming more involved with
the family. But Deborah Orr
doesn't mention any of these things and so, presumably, thinks
that men should be unaffected by them. 5.
"The home is the most dangerous place for a woman to be." "Most
women in casualty departments are there because of domestic violence in the
home." These are examples of vindictive, spiteful propaganda against men that are STILL being perpetrated by
leading feminists - particularly by those in the domestic violence industry,
headed by the likes of Sandra Horley of Refuge. And people, including the politicians, still believe this rubbish And
anyone who has watched the domestic violence 'experts' and 'victims' ranting all
afternoon on TV chat shows, constantly urging women to kick out their male
partners and to phone the police even if their partners are merely shouting, can
be left in no doubt that men are considered to be highly undesirable when it
comes to the family and children. And
when these women's shows actually invite murderesses on to the stage to the
accompanying applause of hysterical women who clearly approve of the murder of
male partners, it should hardly surprise anyone to discover that men are
becoming increasingly unwilling to enter the arena of marriage or its modern-day
equivalent! 6. UK
laws with regard to the family and sexual assault are now so perverted, corrupt
and unjust that there can hardly be a man left in the country who believes that
he will get fair treatment in any of his close dealings and relationships with
women. ALL the
above are feminist-inspired and feminist-driven. The
message, for thirty years, has been that men are violent and abusive to have
around. Women don't need them. Children don't need them. Men are
dangerous. Men have to be disempowered. The
government and the media have all been giving out these same repulsive feminist
messages. And they
have done so by utilising a propaganda machine that not only POSITIVELY DWARFS
even the one that led Germans to commit great crimes in the past, but it is also
one that has had 30 long years in which to polish and promote its foul,
discriminatory, man-hating messages. The whole country has been bombarded
relentlessly with them. And
Deborah Orr, part of the media machine, doesn't mention any of
these things! Not
one of them! Isn't it
astonishing that, in an article entitled The Truth About This Male Crisis, NOT
ONCE, does Deborah Orr mention the negative impacts of feminism? NOT
ONCE! Feminism -
one of the most influential and leading ideologies for the past thirty years -
has absolutely nothing to do with any of all this! But,
No, it's not really astonishing at all. It's absolutely par for the course. The
Truth About This Male Crisis is very simply put. It,
and just about everything else, is entirely the fault of men. And feminism has
nothing to do with it! This
is what Deborah Orr's message boils down to.
But, as I keep reminding
readers, men are so low in the scheme of things that, for example, when their penises are cut
off, people laugh. This
fact alone makes a thousand statements about the true status of men in this
society. The hatred of men now goes very deep within people's psyches. And
perhaps Deborah Orr would do well to reflect upon this single fact, and the
thousand statements that it makes, when she considers The
Truth About This Male Crisis.
In summary, the feminist
message for three decades (wholly endorsed by government and the media) has been
that women and children do NOT need men, and that those men who do get involved
with women and/or children should always be under suspicion, and that they
should expect no justice at all when things go wrong or when anyone makes any
sort of accusation against them. No wonder men are retreating. And no wonder
many of them are saying to their women, "When it comes to the children, you
deal with them."
End Bit
I like Deborah Orr, and have done for
years. I read her articles in the Independent and I like them. In this article,
it was the paragraph about health that happened to set me off! And, as a result
of my moaning about it on this website, a few days ago, as I've mentioned, I
received loads of emails concerning the article.
However, though I approve well of Deborah
Orr, it still doesn't trouble me in the slightest to attack her views - even if
unfairly. Doing so (and the same applies to those newspapers I attack) merely
raises her profile among those who visit this website, and I am more than happy
for this to occur.
And now, particularly with the internet,
journalists have to remain in high profile in order to earn a good living. They
have to attract attention from within an ever-widening pond of competing
information and entertainment. (Just like musicians.)
Now, given that it is clearly in all our
interests that our newspapers maintain an online presence, I have no problems at
all with regard to creating controversies with journalists or newspapers if the
result is that they receive more attention.
They thrive on it.
I want people to go to their internet
pages and, if possible, to spend money through their adverts! Indeed, it would
be a catastrophe in so very many ways if newspapers or journalists started
pulling their pages off the web.
There is a real possibility that this
will happen in the near future, unless we, the internet users, go to their sites
and avail ourselves of their business offerings!
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