Updated January 2014
When women commit paternity fraud, they cheat their children, their
partners and the real fathers; and yet so corrupt and desperate to win the
female vote are many current-day politicians, that many western governments
actually promote paternity fraud.
Some 250,000 men in the USA are not the real fathers of the
children that the mothers have purported them to be.
They have been hoodwinked.
However, as is customary nowadays, many politicians and judges seem
completely unconcerned that men can be defrauded in this way with impunity even though the
discovery that someone else is the father of 'their' children must be one of the
most devastating psychological shocks that a man can experience.
Nevertheless, in many parts of the western world the legal system has been
so corrupted by its officials that judges can now force men who discover that
have been deceived with regard to their paternity to continue to pay child support for
children who are not theirs, and to be compelled to do so for many years into
The bogus arguments in support of this blatant and utterly reprehensible
piece of chicanery that treats such men as if they were utterly worthless and
completely undeserving of any consideration at all, rest, as usual, on the
fraudulent claim that the 'interest of the child' is best served by
treating them in this atrocious manner.
However, the downright dishonesty of those resting their case
upon this claim is
readily exposed by
pointing out that when it comes to funding for children, this can easily come
from the state itself through the form of a welfare cheque via a payment system
that is already well-established and which was designed specifically to distribute funds to needy mothers with children.
As far as financial support for children is concerned, therefore, the state can
easily put its money where its mouth is, and pay up, if it is so concerned about the 'best interest of
There is, therefore, simply no real justification to
continue to heap further injustices upon men who are already the hapless
victims of lying women
There is, therefore, simply no real justification to continue to heap
further injustices upon men who are already the hapless victims of lying women
and who have, often, already been exploited for many years before discovering that
they have been cheated so dreadfully - and this thanks only to the recent development of DNA
tests for paternity.
Furthermore, by forcing men to pay financially for the children of women who
have defrauded them, women are simply encouraged into deceiving
both their partners
and their children. How can this possibly be of benefit to
children? - particularly given that they will likely discover the fraud in the
future when DNA testing becomes commonplace for various reasons.
As DNA testing becomes
more readily available, easier to do, and more worthwhile doing in the near
future, so it is that more of it will be done.
And when, as a result of this,
most of the children who have been duped finally discover that a large and significant part of
their true identities have not only been denied to them, but that, to make
matters worse, these children have actually been suckered into developing
solely in order to benefit politicians, they are
surely going to be highly aggrieved; to say the least.
And the later that these children discover their true
parentage, the more that they and the men who have been deceived will be harmed.
How can society possibly benefit from
anything that encourages this sort of thing?
It is also now well-established that even children who are aware that they
have been brought up without ever having known one or both of their true parents often
experience a deep sense of loss when they are adults because of the void that
continues to reside in parts of their identities.
So significant is this to them
that many will actually go to great lengths to discover as much as they can
about their true parents - often trying to find out where they live so that they
can meet with them, or, if they are inaccessible - perhaps dead - trying to determine
what kind of people they were by gathering as much information about them as
It is almost beyond belief, therefore, that the justice systems of so many
governments are actually employing policies that encourage paternity fraud.
And for their officials then to compound this iniquity by perpetuating the outrageous
and transparent lie that they do this in order to serve the children's own best
interests demonstrates such a high degree of treachery and trickery with respect to
the public that they are supposed to be serving - and to the children whom they are
supposed to be protecting - that they should surely be disqualified from working
in any government department that might concern the welfare of families or
There is surely not a respectable psychologist,
psychiatrist, psychoanalyst or psychotherapist on the planet who would not
attest to the long-term negative consequences of denying children the truth
about their parentage for many years except under the most extreme and unusual of
As such, it is 'in the best interest of our children' that
governments should be actively seeking to discourage most strongly those women
who might be inclined to be deceptive concerning the fathers of their children.
Instead, however, many are doing the exact opposite.
Governments should not
be providing incentives for mothers to be deceptive for 'as long as possible' in
the hope that, with time, their hoodwinked partners will then find themselves
unable legally to extricate themselves from the financial traps in which they
have been ensnared.
On the contrary, governments that are
genuinely concerned about the best interests of children should do their best to
ensure that as many children as possible know the truth about their parentage,
and that as many adults as possible know who are their true children.
governments should be making it very clear to
women that the justice system will not protect them from the consequences
of their own deceitfulness
As such, governments should be making it very
clear to women that the justice system will not protect them from the
consequences of their own deceitfulness. And the very last thing that the legal
system should do is to encourage such deceitfulness.
Further, of course, by encouraging mothers to deny children the truths about
their fathers, the state might also well deny such children the medical help that they
might require at some time in the future - such as a kidney, perhaps.
In addition, in the vast majority of these cases the
real fathers are completely unaware that they have sired any children with these
deceptive women, and keeping them in the dark about this will eventually also add
them to the list of those who have been victimised, cheated and damaged by these
women and by the government that supports them.
And so the terrible emotional distress that is caused by
a government's promotion
and encouragement of such deceitfulness spreads way beyond the men who have been
hoodwinked into believing in their paternity. It clearly also extends to all
the children concerned, as well as to the real fathers.
Here are some comments by Randall Kessler a lawyer from Atlanta.
"Often forgotten in these situations are the "secondary"
victims. While it is vitally important to try to minimize the traumatic effect
such a revelation can have on a child, we too often forget there may also be a
traumatic and tremendous financial effect on the alleged father.
As a family law attorney, I see this all too often. Men who pay child
support for many, many years unfortunately realize that not only is the child
they've been supporting not their own. They have delayed having more children
with their new spouse for five, 10 or more years because they were financially
unable to do so."
That many western governments actually promote and
perpetrate injustices such as these on their citizens is a damning testament to how
corrupted and self-serving they have grown to be in recent years.
Furthermore, of course, this issue must have some relevance to the
subject of domestic violence - something which western governments claim is such
an enormous problem that they pour huge resources into allegedly trying to
And yet here they are demanding that men should be obliged to fund children
who are not their own, and that these men should also contribute to the lifestyle of the very
women who cheated them!
A situation more conducive to regular domestic
disharmony and violence is hardly imaginable, and yet this is precisely what
these governments are promoting.
And so, once again, such unjust measures can
clearly be seen to lead to circumstances that are quite contrary to the 'best
interest of the child'.
There is surely only one legal position that must
be made available when men discover that the
children whom they have been supporting are not theirs, and this is that all
legal obligations on their
part should cease immediately. Not only would this discourage paternity fraud,
it would also be the just and fair thing to do.
In many circumstances, of course, such men might well wish to continue with
their financial support of the children. And, in all likelihood, this will be
the case where the relationships between them and the children have gone on for
some years. But this is a choice for them to make, and not for governments to
Other men might well decide to leave, and perhaps start relationships anew in
order to have their own legitimate families. And for governments to thwart and
obstruct these victims of deception by forcing them to continue funding the families of the
very women who defrauded them is so unspeakably vindictive and unjust that any
politicians and judges who actually maintain that this is the right thing to do
clearly disgrace themselves and discredit the entire justice system.
Finally, if it is was women who
were cheated in such a disgusting manner - spending years of their lives
labouring for and paying for children whom they have been hoodwinked into
believing were their own - the men responsible would undoubtedly end up
serving very long prison sentences.
But when men and children are discovered to have been cheated by women
in such a disgusting manner, many politicians actually wish to perpetuate
these horrible injustices.
They want to encourage such behaviour.
Question: How much lower can these scoundrels sink in order to win